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Appreciating What You Have Before It’s Gone
Appreciation isn’t about forced gratitude, it’s about noticing what matters before it becomes something you miss. This reflective piece explores presence, perspective, and reducing regret by valuing everyday moments while they’re still here.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
1 day ago3 min read


Emotional Recovery and the Moment I Stopped Letting the Darkness Grow
Emotional recovery begins when you stop shrinking yourself to survive. Dr. Scott shares how identity loss happens slowly, the moment that sparked his own healing, and the boundaries required to regrow into the person you were meant to be.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Dec 12, 20253 min read


Breaking Free From Emotional Poverty: How To Use Your Better Days Wisely
Emotional poverty happens when your daily energy output far exceeds your capacity to refill. Dr. Scott explains why “better days” often feel pressured and overwhelming, and offers five practical ways to invest in emotional stability instead of burning through limited energy.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Nov 28, 20253 min read


When the Inner Relationship Turns Against You
Your inner critic can follow the same destructive cycle Gottman observed in failing relationships, criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and emotional withdrawal. Dr. Scott explains how these patterns form internally and the two foundational shifts needed to rebuild a healthier relationship with yourself.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Nov 21, 20253 min read


Grief Doesn’t Fix Itself But Facing It Can Change Everything
Many believe “time heals grief,” but time alone doesn’t heal anything. Grief that’s avoided only gets stored and returns stronger later. The real shift happens when you let yourself feel it—through therapy, journaling, or safe conversations. Facing grief hurts at first, but over time, it softens and stops running your life.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Sep 5, 20253 min read


How to Reduce Anxiety by Confronting What You Fear
Avoiding your fears might feel safe but it actually fuels anxiety, stress, and self-doubt. In this blog, discover how facing the unknown in your health, finances, or relationships can shrink fear and build self-trust. Learn real-life strategies to stop spiraling and start moving forward, one brave step at a time.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Aug 1, 20253 min read


What to do when working on yourself feels utterly pointless
Stuck in a cycle of hopelessness and self-doubt? This blog reveals how investing just a little effort—without needing belief or motivation—can ignite real change. Learn how to break free from emotional stagnation and rebuild momentum from scratch. It starts with one small shift.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Jul 5, 20253 min read


Practical Psychological Strategies For Coping With Pet Loss
Pet loss grief is real and often misunderstood. Losing a beloved pet can be just as painful as losing a human, but few people talk about how to truly heal. In this heartfelt guide, Scott shares personal insights and practical tools to help you cope, process, and move forward—without minimizing your pain.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Jun 20, 20253 min read


How to Heal the Most Important Relationship in Your Life
Your relationship with yourself shapes every part of your life—but what if that relationship is toxic? From perfectionism to self-punishment, this blog explores why self-hate isn’t a life sentence and how healing your relationship with yourself begins with small, powerful mindset shifts. Ready to change the way you speak to yourself? Let’s begin.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
May 30, 20253 min read


When One Small Thing Is Enough to Keep Going
When life feels overwhelming, sometimes one small thing is enough to keep you going. In this personal story, discover how a fragile thread of hope—a childhood memory, a favorite place, or even a simple joy—can help you rebuild, heal, and move forward, even when you don’t have it all figured out.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
May 9, 20253 min read


The Truth About Failure That Changed My Life
Success isn’t avoiding failure—it’s discovering your true limits. Learn how pushing past fear unlocks potential in fitness, career, and life. Break free from self-sabotage and redefine what you’re capable of achieving.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
May 2, 20253 min read


Finding Connection in a World Filled with Isolation
Discover how to combat the loneliness epidemic with real human connection.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Apr 4, 20253 min read


How A Convenient Child Becomes A Wounded Adult: The Effects of Childhood Conditioning
Childhood shapes adulthood. Learn how to unlearn old patterns, reconnect with emotions, and heal attachment struggles. Start healing today!

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Mar 14, 20253 min read


You Can’t Be Growing All The Time
Dormancy isn’t failure—it’s nature’s pause. Growth returns when conditions align. Be kind to yourself.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Feb 28, 20253 min read


6 Common Mental Mistakes Making You Miserable
Struggling with your thoughts? Discover 6 common mental health mistakes—and how to fix them. Find peace without forcing it.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Feb 15, 20253 min read


Why You Deserve to Be Your Own Caregiver
Stop putting yourself last. Discover aggressive self-care—prioritizing competence, connection, and health to thrive, not just survive.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Feb 7, 20253 min read


Why Are We Sad When Nothing’s Wrong?
Struggling to find joy? Discover how intentional "charging stations" can transform your daily mood and help you thrive.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Jan 31, 20252 min read


What Makes Trauma Different From Everything
Discover why trauma recovery differs from everything else. Learn how to heal trauma effectively and avoid common pitfalls in trauma recovery

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Jan 24, 20254 min read


Finding Balance Between Self-Love and Compassion for Others
From self-doubt to self-love: How social media's mental health labels impact us & why healthy self-acceptance isn't narcissism.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Jan 10, 20253 min read


Your Emotions Are Not Your Enemy
Discover how treating feelings as allies instead of enemies leads to better emotional regulation and life choices.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Nov 22, 20242 min read
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