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What Saved When Therapy Didn't
Therapy often feels vague or contradictory. Dr. Scott explains a simple, science-based framework: treat mental health like a system. You can’t change depression directly, but you can track four key resources—time, energy, attention, and money—and measure how they affect recovery.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Sep 26, 20253 min read


6 Strategies to Break Free from Anxiety Routines
Anxiety routines may feel protective, but they often trap you in over-preparation and exhaustion. Dr. Scott shares six strategies—from small disruptions to universal coping tools—that help break the cycle and prove you can handle life without rehearsing every detail.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Sep 19, 20254 min read


Why Chasing Acceptance Destroys Self-Worth
The “transitive property fallacy” is the belief that if one group rejects you, you must belong somewhere “lower.” It’s a toxic loop that leads to shrinking your life just to gain approval. Dr. Scott shares how he broke free—not by performing harder, but by stopping the downward spiral and building a life aligned with his values.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Sep 12, 20253 min read


Grief Doesn’t Fix Itself But Facing It Can Change Everything
Many believe “time heals grief,” but time alone doesn’t heal anything. Grief that’s avoided only gets stored and returns stronger later. The real shift happens when you let yourself feel it—through therapy, journaling, or safe conversations. Facing grief hurts at first, but over time, it softens and stops running your life.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Sep 5, 20253 min read


When Depression Steals Your Ability to Feel Anything (Anhedonia)
Anhedonia, the inability to feel joy or pleasure is one of depression’s hardest symptoms. It often appears suddenly, leaving people numb even when doing things they used to love. Dr. Scott explains how “emotion stacking” combining effort, connection, and reward can help break through numbness and create moments of real feeling again.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Aug 29, 20253 min read


6 Practical Ways to Calm Anxiety and Reclaim Control of Your Life
If you live with chronic anxiety, even everyday decisions can feel overwhelming. Here are 7 practical, science-based ways to manage anxiety: validate your feelings, face fears gradually, reduce caffeine, avoid overcommitting, fuel your brain with nutrition, protect your sleep, and make small daily changes that retrain your brain.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Aug 21, 20253 min read


Is Your Personality a Problem? How Understanding Your Traits Can Set You Free
Some traits aren’t flaws to fix—they’re features to work with. The Big Five personality traits reveal your natural strengths and challenges, helping you know when to grow and when to embrace your nature. Learn how to design habits, relationships, and routines that align with who you are, not who you think you should be.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Aug 15, 20254 min read


How To Make Healthier Choices In Life
Discover how the Wise Mind method can guide you to make healthier choices in life. Learn Wise Mind decision-making for self-trust.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Aug 8, 20253 min read


How to Reduce Anxiety by Confronting What You Fear
Avoiding your fears might feel safe but it actually fuels anxiety, stress, and self-doubt. In this blog, discover how facing the unknown in your health, finances, or relationships can shrink fear and build self-trust. Learn real-life strategies to stop spiraling and start moving forward, one brave step at a time.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Aug 1, 20253 min read


I Was Losing Myself to Screens
Your relationship with technology can either support your mental health or quietly drain it. In this blog, I share how I broke free from screen-driven habits using bottom-up time budgeting—a simple, powerful approach to reclaim your time, improve focus, and build a healthier connection with technology.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Jul 25, 20254 min read


5 Stages of Mental Health Recovery (Valley of Despair)
Mental health recovery isn’t a straight line—it often gets harder before it gets better. This blog walks you through the five powerful stages of healing, from denial to true resilience. If you’re in the thick of it, you’re not alone—and you're not stuck. Discover what it really takes to move through the Valley of Despair.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Jul 18, 20253 min read


Addiction to Distraction: Why You're Exhausted, Unmotivated, and Still Falling Behind
Feeling stuck, drained, and constantly behind—despite doing everything "right"? You might be battling an addiction to distraction. This blog breaks down how everyday habits quietly sabotage motivation and what you can do to reclaim your time, energy, and focus. A powerful, personal strategy that offers real hope and lasting change.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Jul 11, 20253 min read


What to do when working on yourself feels utterly pointless
Stuck in a cycle of hopelessness and self-doubt? This blog reveals how investing just a little effort—without needing belief or motivation—can ignite real change. Learn how to break free from emotional stagnation and rebuild momentum from scratch. It starts with one small shift.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Jul 5, 20253 min read


I Talked to 3 AI Therapy Apps So You Don’t Have To
I tested three top-rated AI therapy apps during a severe depressive episode to see if any could offer real support. What I found was a mix of quick fixes, missed moments, and one surprising response that actually understood its limits. If you're wondering whether AI mental health tools can truly help—this is where it gets real.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Jun 27, 20253 min read


Practical Psychological Strategies For Coping With Pet Loss
Pet loss grief is real and often misunderstood. Losing a beloved pet can be just as painful as losing a human, but few people talk about how to truly heal. In this heartfelt guide, Scott shares personal insights and practical tools to help you cope, process, and move forward—without minimizing your pain.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Jun 20, 20253 min read


How To Rejoin The World After Becoming Disconnected
Feeling disconnected from the world isn’t a failure—it’s often a survival response. In this deeply personal blog, I share how I moved from isolation and numbness back to a place of connection, one small step at a time. If you’ve ever felt like you’re on the outside of life looking in, this is for you.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Jun 13, 20253 min read


7 Types of Anxiety That Therapy and Medication Can’t Fix
Struggling with anxiety that just won’t go away, even with therapy or medication? You might be dealing with one of seven overlooked types of anxiety that don’t stem from chemical imbalances. This blog breaks down the real-life causes behind these often-missed anxieties—and offers practical steps to actually start feeling better. Don’t treat the wrong problem. Understand what’s really driving your anxiety.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
Jun 6, 20253 min read


How to Heal the Most Important Relationship in Your Life
Your relationship with yourself shapes every part of your life—but what if that relationship is toxic? From perfectionism to self-punishment, this blog explores why self-hate isn’t a life sentence and how healing your relationship with yourself begins with small, powerful mindset shifts. Ready to change the way you speak to yourself? Let’s begin.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
May 30, 20253 min read


Bed Rotting: The Self-Care Myth You Need to Know About
Think bed rotting is self-care? Think again. This trending habit can make anxiety and depression worse, not better. Discover six simple, science-backed ways to break free from the bed rotting cycle and build healthier rest habits that truly restore your mental health.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
May 23, 20253 min read


Depression vs Laziness: Knowing the Difference Could Save Your Self-Worth
Have you ever been called lazy when you just couldn’t move—no matter how much you wanted to? What looks like laziness on the outside often feels like paralysis on the inside. The key difference? Depression isn’t a choice—it’s a battle with your own mind.
Unlike laziness, depression doesn’t erase your dreams—it traps you in a fog, making even simple tasks feel impossible. Laziness avoids effort; depression steals joy from everything, even the things you once loved.

Dr. Scott Eilers, PsyD, LP
May 16, 20253 min read
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